
December 29, 2024
On this page you will find:
The readings for Mass, the Mass leaflet with the choice of hymns
A sample universal prayer available for download , in PDF and editable Word formats.
A meditation on the Sunday Gospel , a spiritual text and a commentary by Marie-Noëlle Thabut
The Holy Family
Party

Marie, his mother, kept in her heart
all these events.
As for Jesus, he grew in wisdom,
in size and grace,
before God and before men.
Luke 2:51b-52
Readings from the Mass
Mass leaflet
Universal Prayer
Lectio Divina
Consult this page for a prayerful preparation for the liturgy and then read the meditations below.
Meditation
Today we celebrate the Holy Family of Nazareth. God chose a humble and simple family to dwell among us. We contemplate the beauty of this mystery, while also highlighting two practical aspects for our own families.
First, the family is the story from which we come. Each of us has our own story; no one is born by magic, with a magic wand. Each of us has a story, and the family is the story from which we originate. Today's Gospel reading reminds us that Jesus, too, is the son of a family history. We see him traveling to Jerusalem with Mary and Joseph for Easter; then he worries his mother and father, who cannot find him; once found, he returns home with them (cf. Lk 2:41-52). It is beautiful to see Jesus woven into the fabric of family ties, born and raised in the embrace and care of his family. This is important for us as well: we come from a history woven with bonds of love, and the person we are today is born not so much from the material possessions we have received, but from the love we have been given, the love within the family. Perhaps we weren't born into an exceptional, trouble-free family, but this is our story—each of us should think: this is my story—these are our roots: if we sever them, life becomes barren! God didn't create us to be solitary leaders, but to walk together. Let us give thanks and pray for our families. God is thinking of us and wants us to be together: grateful, united, and able to preserve our roots. And we must remember this, our story.
The second aspect: we learn every day how to be a family. In the Gospel, we see that even within the Holy Family, everything doesn't always go smoothly: there are unexpected problems, anxieties, and suffering. The Holy Family of devotional images doesn't exist. Mary and Joseph lose Jesus and search for him anxiously, only to find him three days later. And when, sitting among the masters of the Temple, he replies that he must be about his Father's business, they don't understand. They need time to get to know their son. It's the same for us: every day, as a family, we must learn to listen to and understand one another, to walk together, to face conflicts and difficulties. This is the daily challenge, and it is met through the right attitude, small acts of kindness, simple gestures, and by paying attention to the details of our relationships. And this also helps us a lot; talking as a family, talking at the table, the dialogue between parents and children, the dialogue between siblings, helps us to experience this family root that comes from the grandparents. Dialogue with the grandparents!
And how do we do this? Let's look at Mary, who, in today's Gospel, says to Jesus, "Your father and I are looking for you" (v. 48). She doesn't say "your father and I"—before "I," there is "you"! Let's learn this: before "I," there is "you." In my language, there's an adjective for people who say "I" first, then "you": "I, me, and with me, and for me, and for my own benefit." People who are like that, "I" first, then "you." No, in the Holy Family, there is "you" first, then "I." To preserve harmony in the family, we must fight the dictatorship of the self, when the self swells. This is dangerous when, instead of listening to ourselves, we reproach ourselves for our mistakes; when, instead of showing care for others, we focus on our own needs; When, instead of talking, we isolate ourselves with our cell phones—it's sad to see a family at the table, each person with their phone, not speaking to one another; when we accuse each other, always repeating the same phrases, staging a tired old charade where everyone wants to be right, and in the end, an icy silence settles in. This heavy, icy silence after a family argument is ugly, very ugly! I repeat this advice: in the evening, after all, you must make peace, always. Never go to bed without having made peace, otherwise, the next day, there will be a "cold war"! And that is dangerous because then a story of recriminations, a story of resentment, will begin. How often, unfortunately, within the walls of our homes, conflicts arise and intensify because of silences that are too long and unresolved selfishness! Sometimes it even leads to physical and emotional violence. It tears apart the harmony and kills the family. Let us turn from self to you. What should be most important in the family is you. And each day, please, pray together a little, if you can make the effort, asking God for the gift of peace in the family. And let us all strive—parents, children, Church, civil society—to support, defend, and preserve the family, which is our treasure!
May the Virgin Mary, wife of Joseph and mother of Jesus, protect our families.
POPE FRANCIS
ANGELUS
Saint Peter's Square
Sunday, December 26, 2021
The Gospel for this Sunday
presented to children
(and to those who resemble them)
Interview with Bernadette Dumont
for Magnificat
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Lord, open our hearts
to make us pay attention
to the words of your Son.
◗ What an example for our young teenagers, Jesus running away at 12 years old!
In truth, this is not a runaway at all. And for Jesus, it is not about doing something wrong but, on the contrary, about fulfilling, in the name of his Father, his mission to do the greatest good imaginable: to save the world.
◗ Still, disappearing for three days at age 12…
In Jesus' time, there was no adolescence in the sense we understand it today. One passed directly from childhood to adulthood. And the rite of passage from one to the other took place precisely at the age of 12 or 13. At 12, Jesus could freely decide to make the return journey with friends—something his parents believed without worrying; or to stay in the Temple and discuss with the teachers of the Law. Moreover, what his parents reproached him for was not being in the Temple, but not having told them.
◗ Jesus' response is hard to hear. He could have said, "I'm sorry I caused you this distress..."
Yes, it's true, this response already foreshadows his future words: "My mother and brothers are those who hear the word of God and put it into practice." Mary and Joseph knew full well that, from his birth to his Passion, their child would be on a mission, a mission that would lead him to give his whole life for us according to his Father's will! And that, therefore, their child should be primarily dedicated to his Father's affairs. Whatever the cost. Even if a sword were to pierce his mother's heart.
◗ Benedict XVI said that the episode of Jesus in the Temple, at the age of 12, should be read as the first step of perfect and voluntary filial obedience which would lead him to the cross…
This first step, moreover, is the announcement and foreshadowing of what would become, twenty years later, the supreme and glorious manifestation of his filial obedience: the scene takes place in Jerusalem, during the Passover festivities, Jesus is lost, he is being sought on the road and, finally, he is found alive and well on the third day, while he has opened hearts to the understanding of Scripture…
◗ How could a 12-year-old child today have the same filial obedience to his Heavenly Father?
In the second reading, Saint John, the disciple whom Jesus loved, gives us an answer valid for all ages:
Whatever we ask of God, we receive from him, because we keep his commandments. And this is his commandment: to put our faith in the name of his Son Jesus Christ, and to love one another as he commanded us.
Catechist and author of children's books, Bernadette Dumont is a mother and grandmother.
Better understanding the Gospel
with Marie-Noëlle Thabut
Better understanding the Gospel
with Marie-Noëlle Thabut
“He came to his own house, and his own people did not receive him”: this is a phrase from John in the prologue to his Gospel; it seems that the account we read here in Luke illustrates this point. For this account presents us with both a manifestation of the mystery of Jesus and the incomprehension of his closest relatives. That this family went to Jerusalem for Passover is not surprising. That it lasted eight days is also not surprising: the two combined feasts of Passover and Unleavened Bread, which were already one, did indeed last eight days.
But what follows is astonishing: the young boy remains at the Temple, seemingly without bothering to inform his parents; they leave Jerusalem with the entire group, as they do every year, without checking whether he is indeed on the journey. This separation lasts three days, a number Luke specifies, of course, intentionally. When the three of them are reunited, they are not yet on the same page: Mary's affectionate reproach, still deeply moved by the anguish of those three days, clashes with her son's equally sincere astonishment: "Why were you looking for me? Didn't you know? I must be in my Father's house."
The manifestation of the mystery of Jesus lies, of course, in the wonder of all, and particularly of the doctors of the Law, before the light that so clearly dwells within him. It also lies in the mention of the three days which, throughout the Bible, are the usual time frame for encountering God. Three days will be the period between the burial and the Resurrection, that is to say, the complete victory of life. The manifestation of the mystery of Jesus lies, finally, in this astonishing statement from the mouth of this twelve-year-old boy, accompanied by his two very human parents: “I must be in my Father’s house.” There he clearly affirms himself as the Son of God; at the Annunciation, the Angel Gabriel had already presented him as the “Son of the Most High,” but this could only be understood as the title of the Messiah; this time, the revelation takes a step further: the title of son applied to Jesus is not merely a royal title, it speaks of the mystery of Jesus’ divine sonship. No wonder it's not immediately understandable! And that's not all: Jesus, today, says "I am in my Father's house"... Later he will say "Whoever has seen me has seen the Father".
It's truly incomprehensible, even to his parents: and Jesus dares to ask them, "Did you not know?" Even believers as profound and fervent as Joseph and Mary are surprised, bewildered by the mysteries of God. This should reassure us. Let us not be surprised that we ourselves understand so little! Have we forgotten the words of Isaiah? "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the Lord. "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts" (Isaiah 55:8-9).
The Gospel suggests that Mary herself doesn't understand everything immediately: she takes it all in, questions it, and seeks to understand. "Her mother treasured up all these things in her heart." After the shepherds' visit to the cave in Bethlehem, we already read: "But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart" (Luke 2:19). Luke gives us an example to follow: accepting that we won't understand everything right away, but allowing meditation to take root within us. Just like our own, Mary's faith is not a bed of roses!
And all this takes place in the Temple in Jerusalem; Luke attaches great importance to the Temple, which for the Jews was the sign of God's presence among his people. But, as we know, for Christians, it is now the body of Christ himself that is the true Temple of God, the place par excellence of his presence. Our story today is one of the stages of this revelation; Luke is certainly thinking here of the prophecy of Malachi: “The Lord you are seeking will suddenly come to his temple; the angel of the covenant in whom you delight will come. He is coming,” says the Lord Almighty. (Malachi 3:1)
The last sentence of Luke's account gives us pause for thought: "Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man." This means that Jesus himself, like all children of the world, needs to grow! The mystery of the Incarnation goes this far: it signifies, on the one hand, that Jesus is fully human, and on the other hand, that God has patience with our growth: for him, a thousand years are like a day (Psalm 89/90).
Finally, we might be surprised by an apparent contradiction: Jesus answers his parents, "I must be in my Father's house," only to return with them to Nazareth immediately afterward. This means he didn't stay in the Temple of stone! Neither did Samuel, for that matter (see the first reading): although consecrated to the Lord and brought to the Temple at Shiloh to remain there for the rest of his life, Samuel ultimately served the Lord outside the Temple, taking the lead of his people. Perhaps this, too, is a lesson for us: "I must be in my Father's house" means a life given in service to humanity, not necessarily within the Temple precincts. In other words, being with the Father means first and foremost being at the service of his children.
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Complement
- The Gospel of Luke begins at the Temple in Jerusalem with the announcement to Zechariah of the birth of John the Baptist (John means "God has shown favor"); it is there that, on the day of the Presentation of Jesus, Simeon proclaims that God's salvation has arrived; it is there finally that the Gospel of Luke ends: after their farewell to the risen Christ, the disciples, he tells us, return to the Temple in Jerusalem.
Lord, make our family
the place of Your love.
Let there be no insult
because You give us understanding.
Let there be no bitterness
because You bless us.
Let there be no selfishness
because You encourage us.
Let there be no resentment
because You give us forgiveness.
There must be no abandonment
because You are with us.
That we may know how to walk to You
in our everyday lives.
Lord, make of us what You desire;
Help us to find our way towards Your path.
Let each of us give
the best of ourselves
To be happy in your family. Amen
Mary and Joseph,
Holy family, pray for us.
Prayer of the Dominican Sisters of Estavayer-Le-Lac

